Girls who wear jeans are characterless – Anonymous
Girls who goes out with guys are slut- Anonymous
Girls who do makeup are cheap – Anonymous
Parents who allows all these to their daughters are also cheap and manner less. – Anonymous
We are living in 21st century and still these kinds of mentality people have. Women in today’s world are facing lot of problems, discrimination, inequality. Some are against women’s health some against their freedom and some against women only. I’m still wondering what kind of insecurity these people have from women?
Sad part is that not only men but women also discriminate women.
Rape, molestation, harassing, female foeticide, Acid Attacks, honor killing are the most popular things done with women but there are many more things that tear women apart from inside and that is disrespectful towards them.
There are lots of societies where women themselves point other women as a Slut, characterless or cheap by judging them with their own point of view. Why? Aren’t they a woman? Or they are not born from a woman?
I’ll not go so far for an example, my own neighbor, She is a woman who continously speaks shit about another women. She is not only the one we have many such men and women who proclaim women who wears western clothes who goes out with guys who comes home late are characterless! I don’t give a damn on this but still all this things need to be stopped. These kind of mentality supports people to disrespect girls.
Why girls have to listen all this things aren’t we a human being with feelings just like others? Why we have to prove ourselves every time in front of the society?
I had a bit conversation with that Respected Aunty who claim to be respectful.. I asked her how can she say that a girl who wear jeans or shorts characterless? She replied proudly, beta dekh kar pata chal jata hai! Seriously? How she manages to see this by a girl’s dressing? There are many people like this aunty who abuses women. They even blame girl’s family for being irresponsible who doesn’t have this” amazing mentality and support their girls to wear to speak to do what they wants”.
I want to tell all these men and women out there who are considering them as our “SHUBHCHINTAK (WELLWISHER)”, I don’t need your well wishes Stop abusing us Stop disrespecting us with your cheap mentality. We don’t have to prove ourselves to neither of you, we need our parents trust which is most important to us.If you can’t handle your son don’t blame it to us that we provoked your son, your son is mature enough to take his decisions and not to get provoked by someone else. If a girl have male friends that doesn’t mean she is a slut, Do you understand the word “FRIENDSHIP” if not then please go ahead and stop pointing out to my character. Well I would love to suggest you that stop your son to have any kind of relation with girls but wait what about your future daughter in law, will you be able to search for her and stop her too, well good luck!
And to everyone out there whether men or women who are against women, DON’T FORGET YOU YOURSELF ARE BORN FROM A WOMAN RAISED BY A WOMAN AND MIGHT BE BLESSED WITH A GIRL. We girls need not to prove us to anyone we are truthful to ourselves our families we don’t need anyone like you who doesn’t know the value of a woman. We too have feelings, we respect our elders we respect everyone but we expect the same from you, the love and respect you give your own daughter. Don’t be so judgemental. We get hurt when we listen to all this things about us! We too have self respect which gets hurt. Please understand.
It is my humble request to everyone who are reading this please be respectful to women, understand our situation when we all face this. And if you still support these kinds of people then don’t you expect us to be humble and to respect you. If you have so much problem from women so please start with your own house your own mother and sister. Otherwise stay away. We might hurt you.